Date From Desire
Professional coaching while your dating life is actually happening
A live transformational coaching experience for self-aware women who want to change their actions and transform the way they experience themselves in love.
Includes ‘Hey Leena’ Real-Time Dating Support
Strong woman —
I see you!
I know you’re not the type to give up easily.
In fact, you’ve already done more than most to try to help yourself.
You’ve already…
- Tried all the dating apps – the elite ones, the hook-up ones, the ‘personality-focused’ ones… the ones where you can only agree a time and a place to meet (who came up with that?)
- You’ve been to therapy and worked on your childhood issues
- Read tonnes of books on dating, relationships and attachment and even considered giving a TED talk on the topic yourself
- Watched the YouTube videos, followed Instagram dating advice, listened to the podcasts whilst you clean your flat
- Tried online dating programmes, manifestation, tantra… meditation, sound healing – you name it, you’ve done it!
- Done a whole lot of self-reflection to understand your patterns and learn from past relationships (maybe even over a Pinot Grigio or 3)
- Worked on your boundaries, your self-esteem and becoming more emotionally secure
- Taken time away from dating to calm your nervous system and focus completely on yourself
- Gotten really clear on what you want and promised yourself you’d rather be alone than settle for something less
And yet, somehow…
All those patterns you’re aware of still have a way of creeping up again:
New Man — Same Relationship — Exact Same 'Learning' Experience
And there comes a point where you have to question – am I actually progressing forward or just moving around in circles?
This is not a criticism – it’s a deep understanding of what you’re really going through
- Maybe you’ve slowly started to notice your sense of confidence, attractiveness and femininity eroding over time
- You feel the grief of having built a beautiful life without having anyone to actually share it with
- You have a future vision you’re building towards with a key component of that vision missing (your life-partner!)
- You see the female empowerment content on IG – ‘invest in yourself and forget the man’ – and feel guilty or inadequate that you still secretly wish for partnership
- You start to question whether you even want a relationship anymore, is it even still possible (I call this late-stage ‘avoidance’ and suffered from it myself)
- And I know you try not to feel the pressure, but it’s so valid to want to meet your partner when you’re in your 30s or 40s, and still feel beautiful, young and energised
- You’re also not wrong to still want a family, yes, even if you’re in your 40s already
- And maybe for this reason (or just the reasons above) you find yourself swinging between going on 3 dates a week or being a total hermit
- And after all of that, you still find yourself attracted to the emotionally unavailable, avoidant, narcissistic-spectrum man where you often stay longer in the relationship than you ever should! And that’s AFTER the therapy
- With a man who always seems to lose interest over time or finds it too overwhelming to talk about the future
And overall you’re just bloody tired.
When did dating become so soulless and draining, you ask?
You know there’s nothing wrong with you – but sometimes you wonder if there is…
You’re left feeling lonely and overwhelmed, inside of a life you should be grateful for, managing all of the logistics and flat out of ideas on how to meet someone healthy and build a relationship that lasts.
A woman was never designed
to deal with this much rejection in love
And a part of you feels that the time you’re investing in dating and love could be better invested elsewhere.
The frustrating part isn’t that you don’t understand yourself
You do!
But your insight is well ahead of your practice
And that’s where Date From Desire – and potentially I – come in.
BTW — Who am I?
Hi, I’m Leena
BSc, PhD
5
years as a dating coach
100s
of women helped to break their patterns
I’ve been a Dating Coach for the last 5 years and helped 100s of women actually break their patterns ‘in real life’ – or Real-Time, as I like to call it.
I’ve trained with relationship coaches from the US to the Netherlands and am committed to my professional development (I am currently working towards my International Coaching Federation Certificate – the current gold standard of the coaching industry).
Anyway, this is all making me sound like I’ve never taken a wrong turn in my life – so let’s get to my real story.
Because the truth is, my own dating journey, my relationships and, most importantly, my relationship with myself have been the true inspiration and innovation of my work. And that’s the real reason the women who work with me get exceptional results: I understand first-hand what’s going on in modern dating… and it’s not all pretty.
What I’ve learned – personally and professionally – is that the dynamic of a relationship is set up while you’re still dating. And the skills that help you date whilst protecting your interests aren’t always the same as the ones that help you love and be loved fully. Date From Desire helps you build both.
Naturally relational women struggle the most in dating.
I do genuinely believe that it’s not over until it’s over – so if it’s love within a life partnership or marriage that you’re looking for, let’s work together and get that for you.
Leena x
But don't just take my word for it…
Hear what women say
Tina · Psychologist
“As a psychologist, I needed something different.”
“We just said we loved each other.”
Amina · Business Analyst
“I unmatched my [now] husband.”
“One decision changed everything.”
She just understands and knows what to do… I've signed up to ‘Date From Desire’ twice now and I met my current boyfriend in the second round – he is so different from any man I've dated before.
Kath · Therapist
Because Leena is so down to earth, you never feel patronised or judged… you KNOW that she genuinely cares… my confidence in dating has improved so much and I am currently dating several men who actually meet my criteria!
Lucy · Accountant
I found Leena when I felt hopeless and lost in the world of dating – I met my now husband whilst in her programme.
Amina · Business Analyst
Have you ever noticed…
How you slowly become less like yourself the more you like him?
- You stop trusting your own instincts and start being influenced by others
- You make decisions from a fear of losing him instead of confidence and self-respect
- You carry the emotional weight, trying to make it work until you're exhausted
- You know exactly what you'd tell a friend to do… but somehow can't do it yourself
- You leave dating situations disappointed not just in them… but in yourself
Maybe you feel yourself becoming more cynical about love than you ever wanted to be…
Date From Desire
A deep transformational coaching experience that feels exactly like you
Designed to build rapid, sustainable change, inside and out.
You not only change your thoughts, feelings and actions in dating but completely transform the identity driving it.
Imagine…
Experiencing yourself differently in love… Not because the ‘dating market’ changed… but because you did:
- Dating from your values instead of your fears
- Trusting yourself without running every scenario through ChatGPT
- Feeling secure and enjoying getting to know him instead of trying to make it something (before you really know whether he's right for you)
- Knowing you won't lose yourself, no matter how much you like him
- Learning what it feels like when you're no longer carrying the emotional weight and ‘making it work’
- Receiving love, care and consistency without feeling like you have to earn it
- Experiencing emotional availability and what safe attraction feels like
- Behaving in alignment with where your responsibility ends and someone else's begins
- No longer repeating the same relationship patterns, even when dating someone completely different
- Feeling excited about dating because you now believe you can experience relationships differently
And looking in the mirror after 3 months and realising…
I'm finally becoming someone I can
trust in love
The Coaching Experience
What you will receive
01
Monthly Deep Dive 1-2-1 Coaching
Value £1,500
Three private sessions to unlock your deepest transformations.
02
Weekly Live Group Coaching
Value £3,000
Twelve live calls for learning, momentum, accountability and to ensure progress towards your customised Desire Map Goals.
03
‘Hey Leena’ Real-Time Dating Support
Value £591 – included free
1-2-1 voice note/text chat with Leena to ensure you implement what you know in your real-time dating actions.
04
Leena’s Custom Online Tools & Resources
Value £997
Unlimited access for the duration of your subscription.
Total value
£6,088
Your investment
£1,997 per round
That’s around a third of the value – and less than £155 a week for deep 1-2-1 coaching, weekly group coaching and real-time support whilst your dating life is actually happening.
Why women create extraordinary transformations inside Date From Desire
Most women think transformation happens during coaching sessions. It doesn’t.
Transformation happens in the hundreds of tiny moments afterwards. Because insight alone doesn’t create transformation.
01
Deep coaching
Every month we’ll uncover what’s driving your patterns.
02
Integration & practice
Every week you’ll integrate what you’re learning.
03
Real-time implementation
Every day you’ll have the opportunity to practise it in your real life.
Insight without implementation rarely changes lives.
Implementation without transformation rarely lasts.
Date From Desire gives you both
DIY online courses are dead!
You know the theory by heart. Yet you still date the same way.
Date From Desire is a live, taught programme that has been refined over the years to include only what truly works.
No pointless homework, no time wasted.
Date From Desire is about translating your insights into Real-Time Action, so you can actually live the relationship you Desire
How women create profound transformations
Coaching doesn't stop when the Zoom call ends.
In fact, the moments that create the greatest change usually happen afterwards…
…when you're waiting for the reply
…when you're wondering what to say
…when you're questioning yourself
…or when an old pattern quietly tries to take over
That’s exactly why Date From Desire includes ‘Hey Leena’ Real-Time Dating Support at no additional cost.
Rather than waiting until your next coaching session, you receive direct support whilst your dating life is actually happening. Because lasting transformation isn’t created by insight alone. It’s created by repeatedly practising a different way of thinking, feeling and behaving in the moments that matter most.
With Real-Time Dating Support you can…
- Ask for guidance before sending the text
- Receive coaching whilst your nervous system is activated
- Interrupt old patterns before they become old outcomes
- Build self-trust through repeated real-life implementation
- Integrate everything you're learning into your everyday dating life
Who is this for?
Women who want experienced change
I’ve coached women from all backgrounds, professions and even therapists themselves, but the women who create the biggest transformations inside Date From Desire all have a few things in common…
- They've already invested in themselves
- They value coaching over quick fixes
- They know that awareness isn't the same as transformation
- They ask questions and are open to being coached
- They DESIRE to create something extraordinary in love and life
- And they're willing to take radical responsibility for the relationships they create
And most importantly… they don’t just want more insight. They want experienced change.
Your questions answered
Everything you might be wondering before you join. If your question isn’t here, you can always speak to Leena first.
Who is Date From Desire specifically designed for?
Single women or women in relationship who want to transform the way they experience themselves in love. If you’ve had the therapy, watched, heard, purchased and read all the YouTube videos/podcasts/courses/books, you know WHAT needs to change but still struggle to translate your knowledge into actions in dating that over time build a healthy and aligned relationship and you know that taking the action means nothing without the deep transformational change that drives that action – Date From Desire is most definitely for you.
I've already done therapy, how is Date From Desire different?
Wonderful. Many of the women I coach have. Therapy is incredibly valuable for understanding yourself, processing the past and making sense of your experiences. Date From Desire isn’t designed to replace therapy. Many women come to me saying, “I know my patterns, I understand why I have them… but I’m still experiencing dating in exactly the same way.” Date From Desire bridges the gap between insight and experienced change, helping you transform the way you think, feel and behave in love through live coaching, real-time implementation and intentional practice.
Date From Desire is not therapy and does not substitute for therapy if needed, and does not prevent, cure, or treat any mental disorder or medical disease.
I've already spent thousands on personal development.
Then you’ll probably know that information doesn’t automatically become transformation. Many of the women I coach have invested heavily in books, podcasts, therapy, courses and coaching before joining. The difference with Date From Desire is that we don’t just create insight, we help you implement it consistently until it becomes who you naturally are.
How is this different from dating and relationship advice?
Most dating advice teaches you what to do. Date From Desire helps you understand why you struggle to do it in the first place, then supports you in changing those patterns through transformational coaching and Real-Time implementation. The goal isn’t simply to make better dating decisions. It’s to transform the way you experience yourself in love so those decisions begin to feel natural.
What kind of outcomes can I realistically expect in Date From Desire?
One woman went from “I’ve never had a boyfriend” to becoming engaged within a year (she’s now happily married). Another had been single for seven years before meeting her now partner during the programme. In fact, several women I’ve coached are now married, engaged or in happy, healthy relationships.
So what kind of result can you expect? If you’re considering Date From Desire, you probably already value learning and self-development. The missing piece usually isn’t more insight, it’s experienced, lasting change in the way you think, feel and show up in love. That’s exactly what Date From Desire is designed to create.
Time and again, I’ve watched women transform the way they experience themselves in love. Every woman’s results are unique and meaningful to her, but every woman who fully engages with Date From Desire experiences change. I encourage you to approach Date From Desire with the mindset of creating experienced change. If you’re a self-investor who wants to experience yourself, your relationships and your life in your greatest expansion, then I think you’ll feel very at home here.
What if I don't meet someone during the programme?
Date From Desire isn’t built around the promise of meeting someone within a specific timeframe. It’s built around something I can confidently promise: transforming the way you experience yourself in love. Many women do go on to meet wonderful partners during or after the programme, but the greatest transformation is becoming someone who no longer loses herself, over-functions or second-guesses her way through relationships. Those changes stay with you for life.
How long do women usually stay in Date From Desire?
According to my coaching records over the past five years, many women begin noticing meaningful change from the first month, with their biggest transformational shift often happening around the five-month mark. However, every woman is different and transformation isn’t something I believe should feel pressured or all-or-nothing.
That’s why Date From Desire is offered in three-month rounds. It keeps the initial investment and commitment far more manageable, whilst giving you plenty of time to experience the coaching and decide whether you’d like to continue. Many women choose to continue for a second round because they’re enjoying the transformation they’re experiencing, not because they feel locked into a long-term commitment. You’ll receive enormous value from your first three months, and whether you continue afterwards is completely your choice.
How much access do I get to you?
Date From Desire includes monthly Deep Dive 1-2-1 coaching sessions, weekly live group coaching and Real-Time Dating Support between sessions. This combination means you’ll receive both deep transformational coaching and ongoing implementation support, creating far more access than traditional coaching alone.
What does Real-Time Dating Support ‘Hey Leena’ actually include?
Real-Time Dating Support gives you direct access to me via your phone between coaching sessions. You’ll be able to message or send short voice notes whenever you’re navigating a dating or relationship situation, allowing you to receive guidance whilst the situation is actually happening. It’s designed to help you implement everything you’re learning inside Date From Desire in the moments that matter most. That’s exactly why Date From Desire includes ‘Hey Leena’ Real-Time Dating Support at no additional cost.
Why are there monthly 1-2-1 sessions and weekly group calls?
Because they each serve a different purpose. Your monthly Deep Dive sessions are where we focus entirely on your personal patterns, goals and transformation. Your weekly group coaching provides momentum, accountability, fresh learning and the opportunity to be coached consistently throughout the month. Together with Real-Time Coaching Support ‘Hey Leena’, these three elements create a coaching experience that supports both deep transformation and lasting implementation.
Why group coaching instead of just private coaching?
Because transformation doesn’t just happen through being coached, it also happens through witnessing and being witnessed. One woman’s question is often another woman’s breakthrough. You’ll realise you’re far less alone than you think and you’ll benefit from perspectives, experiences and coaching moments that you may never have thought to bring yourself. To ensure your own personal transformation remains central, Date From Desire also includes monthly 1-2-1 Deep Dive sessions and Real-Time Coaching between calls.
What if I'm not dating anyone right now?
That’s absolutely okay – it’s the perfect time to begin. Date From Desire isn’t simply about navigating today’s dating situations, it’s about transforming the way you experience yourself in love. The shifts you create now will naturally influence how you date, communicate and choose partners when opportunities arise.
What if I'm already in a relationship?
Congratulations! Then you’ll already know that the skills required to create healthy dating experiences are exactly the same skills required to sustain a healthy relationship. Many women join Date From Desire to experience themselves differently within an existing relationship, deepen emotional intimacy, improve communication and stop repeating old relational patterns.
What if I'm too old?
Healthy love doesn’t have an expiry date. I’ve coached women in their 30s, 40s, 50s and beyond. The women who create the biggest transformations aren’t the youngest, they’re the women who are willing to practise something different.
What if I don't have enough time?
Date From Desire isn’t about adding more to your life. It’s about transforming one of the areas that’s probably taking up the most mental and emotional energy already. The coaching fits around your life, and because you’ll be applying what you learn in real situations, the work becomes part of your everyday experience rather than another task on your to-do list.
Is this suitable if I'm already in therapy?
Absolutely. Many of my clients continue working with therapists whilst coaching with me. Therapy and transformational coaching often work beautifully together. Therapy helps you understand yourself. Date From Desire helps you intentionally create the life, relationships and way of experiencing yourself that you truly desire.
Date From Desire is not therapy and does not substitute for therapy if needed, and does not prevent, cure, or treat any mental disorder or medical disease.
Is this suitable if I've never had coaching before?
Absolutely. You don’t need any previous coaching experience. The only thing I ask is that you’re open, curious and willing to practise something different. If you’re committed to your own growth and ready to experience yourself differently in love, you’ll fit beautifully inside Date From Desire.
Am I beyond help at this point?
No such thing! Date From Desire isn’t about fixing you, it’s about helping you to stop abandoning yourself, strengthen your relationship with yourself and intentionally create relationships that reflect who you truly are.
How to sign up
Date From Desire
The Coaching Experience
Total value £6,088
£1,997
per round · 3 months · all prices in GBP
You can sign up directly by making the payment below or you can speak to Leena first. Please note enquiry calls are charged. Please read the FAQ thoroughly before booking your enquiry call.